return2ozma@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 21 days agoGays, how do you feel about straight girls in gay bars when it's a live DJ night?message-squaremessage-square5linkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareGays, how do you feel about straight girls in gay bars when it's a live DJ night?return2ozma@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 21 days agomessage-square5linkfedilink
minus-squareDiddlydee@feddit.uklinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·21 days agoI’m not gay nor have I been to a live DJ night at a gay bar nor am I a straight girl, but I would wager that anyone coming in a gay bar isn’t a problem as long as they’re not being a dick, just like with any other bar.
minus-squareVictor@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·21 days agoI imagine one reason for coming to a gay bar as a gay person is to feel more confident in who you can “approach”.
minus-squarePomal@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·21 days agoPeople are still going to say no? It just increases the density of options.
I’m not gay nor have I been to a live DJ night at a gay bar nor am I a straight girl, but I would wager that anyone coming in a gay bar isn’t a problem as long as they’re not being a dick, just like with any other bar.
I imagine one reason for coming to a gay bar as a gay person is to feel more confident in who you can “approach”.
People are still going to say no? It just increases the density of options.