They/them preferred, but I won’t be mad if you forget :). Retired programmer. Many health conditions. If I’m uncharacteristically grumpy, I probably have a migraine.

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  • It’s crazy sometimes how an ex seems like an irredeemable horrible person; but then years later you see them with someone else and they’re happy and completely normal. It’s like the combination of you and them made them bad ~ not that it’s your fault of course for being who you are, but they were redeemable after all



  • Zarobi@aussie.zonetoComic Strips@lemmy.world•XXL [SMBC]
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    5 hours ago

    For context, autism doesn’t really have anything to do with accuracy of maths. It has symptoms like difficulty communicating and special interests.

    It’s hard to explain, but “your autism has failed you” just feels weird. I have autism myself. I’ll probably struggle to explain why, but here goes:

    • The original comment was using autism as a joking explanation as to why they enjoy doing calculations. The reply turns that against them: “your autism should have made you good at this, but you failed.” It’s ok to have self deprecating humour, but it’s less funny to deprecate others.
    • It reinforces the stereotype that all autistic purple must be good at calculations, logic, and detail oriented tasks. As if it’s a superpower or special talent, and this person’s autism powers simply failed to activate correctly. It turns the joke into a standard they’re supposed to meet.
    • It makes the mistake seem more serious and personal than it is. We’re calculating condom based floatation devices here lol

    They could have just supplied the corrections to the calculations without making it about their identity. I assume (in good faith) that they meant it as a joke as well; it just came across as a bit insensitive and demeaning.










  • I’m convinced you have to have a certain kind of brain to enjoy Twitter style content

    It’s simply unintuitive and confusing for like 10% of people. You have to like, relax your brain, and just accept that you’re never going to read things in a logical organised tree. It really is basically a big pile, and you just see what you see, and don’t think about what you’re not seeing; if that makes sense. You cannot read everything in a thread and have to accept that and relinquish control

    If this bothers you too much, it’s just not for you; sorry 😂 personally once I realised that, I just gave up on that whole thing