• WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.todayEnglish
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      3 days ago

      I am fairly consistent on this topic.

      Create a story where you “stick it” to the woman who didn’t want to fuck you by showing what she missed out on…

      …well, that smells very suspiciously like a burnt, entitled incel.

      • Bilb!@lemmy.mlEnglish
        3·
        2 days ago

        SMBC is a comic with a very long history and cannot reasonably be considered an “incel” comic. It’s just an amusing sequence using subverted expectations.

      • HalfSalesman@lemmy.worldEnglish
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        2 days ago

        I’ve literally experienced turning down a sad drunk woman trying to make out with me who had turned me down in high school. I wasn’t like “Ha! You could of had me! Too late.” It was more like "What the fuck, fuck you. You said no and now your washed up and you think I’m a easy catch, that’s fucking insulting. " Or at least that’s what was going through my head I said basically nothing I just bolted from her in disgust and anger.

        Also mixed admittedly with some grief and bitterness about my high school experiences directly related to her.

        Part of me wonder admittedly if I should have swallowed my pride and just got with her and I was being petty for suddenly bolting in disgust. But probably not a good idea to get with someone seeking a rebound after being cheated on. And I wasn’t really that attracted to her anymore anyway. Though I was still pretty desperate for love at this point in my life…

        I never understand the sense of superiority conveyed in these stories because its mostly just sad all around for me to think about. At the same time though I don’t really know if its incel-coded because there is the exact same story conveyed from the women’s perspective pretty commonly on the internet. I think its just a common human inclination to want to boost one’s ego.

        • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.todayEnglish
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          2 days ago

          I mean, bonus points for dignity, but she was drunk and could not really consent iirc.

          Maybe I am overly cautious, aggressive due to well… I am bitter too, I feel like I am lesser than others.

          But I decided to just leave it alone, as I am not entitled to like sex and stuff. But I just don’t complain, and I feel insulted to hear someone else feel entitled like that. It is hard not to see it as a bad thing.

          Ironically, I had someone interested in me even recently, but I politely declined due to standards.

          At the same time, I gave up because. well, I can just feel that I am not that complete as a person.

          I am broken, and also dirty in many ways. I don’t feel I am for even friendships, even society, let alone a romantic or sexual relationship.

          I technically am where I am by choice, so not an incel per-se, but I also reject myself. I get this, and it irritates me if I feel someone is entitled.

          I just want to feel nothing and produce, without taking anything anymore.

          • HalfSalesman@lemmy.worldEnglish
            3·
            2 days ago

            I mean, bonus points for dignity, but she was drunk and could not really consent iirc.

            I was also drunk, we were at a bar. She moved towards me to make out. People make out and fuck drunk and/or high all the time.

            general self loathing

            Honestly I don’t know you that well, but I relate to the self loathing, but on a “social fuck up” sort of way.

            That said, chances are you put society on a pedestal. The average person is either astoundingly stupid or a sociopathic/narcissistic piece of shit and as a result society is unfair and dysfunctional. As a result, you shouldn’t be hard on yourself. In fact, that you are as hard on yourself as you seem, you are probably better than the average person by a notch or two.

        • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.todayEnglish
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          2 days ago

          Someone that is an incel would make a story where a woman actually wants to fuck them, but they don’t want to now out of revenge. Does not have to mean so, but you know.

          Dangerous.