Haha thanks for asking :)

It wasn’t a big deal, completely superficial and it’s been a while, but it hurt a bit at the time and it would just have been nice to know she cares enough to ask.

I changed the wording on the title to hopefully be less inflamatory

Of course, I’m not saying men can’t be bad friends or that all women are like this. It’s just a phenomenon that I’ve personally noticed (in my own personal life that is offcourse subjective) where the more often a woman compains about men’s maturity, empathy, etc. the more I see them exibiting those issues. The same for communication. I guess it’s just a specific type of projection, which you see everywhere.

I feel this. There’s one person in our friend group specifically who gets drunk quite easy, is usually often drunk, and usually a nuisince in some way. At least to me. But other friends don’t seem to mind for some reason, even one who has told me several times how she doesn’t like/is bothered by drunk people. But for some reason we’re supposed to tolerate this one 🤷 and she’s also the one who usually wants to party/go for drink when she’s already drunk and others were thinking of going home

I forgot to say, this isn’t the only women I’ve had this kind of ‘contradictory’ feeling about - hence the generalized title - it’s just the more obvious and standoutish case I have personally experienced.